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STRESS MANAGEMENT TECHNIQUES. |
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S. B. GOGATE. |
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In addition
to practicing Pranayam and Meditation every morning
and evening, try these simple techniques anytime
when you feel stressed and tired.
Mental
tension and stress up to some level is healthy
in many ways as it motivates you to deliver the
goods but when mental stress manifests physical
symptoms it aggravates the problem. I have already
provided you meditation and Pranayam techniques
to ease mental stress. This article contains techniques
to release physical and mental stress both. The
emphasis is focussed on your eyes, legs, neck,
back, shoulders, and waist, mood, and butterflies
in stomach, drowsiness, lethargy and quality sleep.
Rest
in Palms:
Sit comfortably, close your eyes lightly
and cover them with your palms such that
the right palm cups the right eye and the
left palm cups the left, one palm partially
overlapping the other but leaving the nostrils
free to breathe. Be sure that both palms
are in cup shape so that they do not press
on the eyes. Keep your eyes open and look
at the darkness. Imagine darkness getting
deeper and deeper. Rest your eyes in this
manner for two/three minutes at a time,
as many times as possible.
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Blinking:
We normally blink our eyes when open at regular
intervals effortlessly without being consciously
aware of the process. However, the eyes with defective
vision become fixed and strained such that blinking
becomes spasmodic and needs conscious efforts.
Blinking reduces strain and as such one must learn
to blink effortlessly once or twice every ten
seconds especially when reading.
Splashing:
Take a generous mouthful of water, close your
mouth and while bending forward splash your eyes
with cold water rapidly, several times. Do this
as many times as you go near a washbasin. Do not
forget to hold water in your mouth while splashing
the eyes, as this cools them down to their nerve
ends causing relaxation.
Vertical
Movement:
Sit in an erect but comfortable position preferably
on a high back chair. Keep the head and neck plumb
and relaxed. Gently move your eyes up and down
ten times. The motion should be very slow, uniform
and effortless without moving the head or neck.
Let the eyes see as far up and as far down as
possible. As the eye muscles start getting more
flexible you will be able to look lower down and
higher up gradually. Repeat this exercise five
to six times in a sitting. You can add to the
relaxation by giving the eyes the rest in palms
in between the repetitions for half a minute.
Sideways
Movement:
Sitting in the same posture as before move your
eyes from side to side as far as possible ten
times. The motion should be very slow, uniform
and effortless without moving the head or neck.
As in the earlier exercise you will be able to
move them further and more easily with practice.
Repeat this exercise five to six times resting
your eyes in palms in between.
Rotation
of Eyes:
Sitting as above move your eyes gently and slowly
around in a circle five times both in clockwise
and anti clockwise motions alternately. Rest for
a second and repeat the process five times. Remember
that it should be done slowly and effortlessly.
Far
and Near Gaze:
Sit on a terrace or near a window where you can
see far off objects on the horizon. Look at a
distant object for some time without blinking
and then look at the tip of your nose till they
feel tired. Repeat ten times blinking every time
you shift your gaze from nose tip to the distant
object and back again. Close your eyes for a second
and restart the ten glances exercise. Repeat five
times and give your eyes rest in palms.
Rechak
Seetkari Tantra:
Rest the cups of the palms of your hands one over
the other loosely facing upwards. Stand with feet
placed slightly apart keeping your shoulders and
arms relaxed. Bend slightly forwards in the waist
such that your back is not curved and your back
and neck remain in a straight line. Roll the tip
of your tongue lightly onto your palate creating
a tingling sensation at the palate. Keep your
eyes open but defocus them completely. Release
your tongue. Take a deep breath allowing your
stomach to expand as far as comfortably possible
and hold your breath. Part your lips while your
upper and lower denture remains in contact with
each other. Now very slowly exhale with a hissing
sound through your closed denture. While exhaling
be aware of your diaphragm, the partition between
your stomach and chest. Repeat a few times and
visualize those butterflies flying away through
your nose, eyes and, ears. This will relieve you
of nervousness, anxiety and elevate your mood.
Dhanurdharasan:
Dhanurdhar means an Archer and this aasan
implies assuming an archer’s posture. The
technique: Put your right foot forward
firmly on the ground and rest your left knee on
the ground such that your left leg lies horizontal
on the ground. Adjust your body such that your
right leg is in a truly vertical position, right
thigh parallel to the ground and your left thigh
is in truly vertical position. Hold an imaginary
bow in you right hand and stretch your right hand
forward above your right knee and simultaneously
pull your left hand behind your left ear as if
you are pulling the cord of the imaginary bow.
Obviously your right hand is stretching forward
and the left hand backward as you are applying
full strength on pulling the cord. Now arch backward
as much as you can without disturbing your leg
positions as if you are aiming to shoot an imaginary
demon high up in the sky. Keep your eyes open
looking at the tip of the imaginary arrow and
be aware of the stretch in your arms, shoulders,
waist and the entire back. Hold this position
as long as you can but not more than three minutes.
Repeat this exercise by reversing leg and arm
position that is left foot forward, bow in the
left hand and cord in the right. You will instantly
feel enhanced blood circulation, surge of extra
energy and mood elevation. You will loose all
lethargy and drowsiness. Use your own discretion
in practicing this aasan as you will not be able
to sleep for at least two hours thereafter.
Oscillating:
This exercise has highly soothing and relaxing
effect on the entire nervous system and
thereby inducing total relaxation and mood
elevation. Stand upright in front of an
open window about three steps away, preferably
opening towards greenery. Stand with your
feet about two feet apart and let your arms
hang loosely. Keeping your feet pinned to
the ground gently oscillate your body from
side to side like an inverted pendulum.
Raise your heels alternately to cause the
swing keeping the toes firmly on the ground.
The idea is to gently swing the whole body
from one side to the other without bending
at the waist and knees. Start the exercise
with eyes open. Be aware of the apparent
movement of the window in the direction
relatively opposite to the objects outside
the window and also the direction of the
swing. Swing like this for thirty seconds
and then close your eyes gently while still
swinging. Imagine the apparent movement
of the window and the objects outside as
clearly as possible behind the closed eyes.
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Open your
eyes after thirty seconds and continue swinging
for five minutes alternately closing and opening
the eyes every thirty seconds. Blink your eyes
often while swinging with open eyes. Repeat few
times in a day if time permits. This exercise
relaxes the entire nervous system, complete metabolism
and also eyes.
Marjariasana
: Cat Stretch Pose: Marjari
means cat. You must have seen a cat stretching
its spine upward and downward occasionally. This
asana imitates this action. Technique:
Kneel on the ground. You may keep your knees
together and also the feet or you may keep them
slightly separated, whatsoever the way it may
suit you. Lean forward and place both hands flat
on the floor in front of the knees. The hands
should be positioned such that when your trunk
is horizontal the arms are vertical. In other
words the hands should be directly below the shoulders
and the thighs should be vertical. Relax your
whole body. Arch your back upward while exhaling
so that it forms a hump. Contract your abdomen
to remove as much air as possible from your lungs.
At the end of exhalation your head should be between
your arms facing towards the thighs. Then slowly
depress your back and raise your head as you breathe
in. At the end of inhalation, the head should
be facing upwards and the spine should be arched
as much as possible in a concave curve. Expand
your abdomen fully to fill the lungs with the
maximum amount of air. Then raise your back upward,
while lowering the head and breathing out. Repeat
the whole process again as many times as you wish.
However, about ten cycles up and down are sufficient.
Breathing should be as described in the technique,
making sure that the abdomen is contracted as
much as possible at the end of exhalation and
expanded as much as possible at the end of inhalation.
Perform the movement and breathing as slowly as
possible, with full awareness. It relaxes your
neck, shoulders, back and waist. It helps get
rid of lethargy and drowsiness. Girls have added
benefits of normalizing menstruation cycle and
hormonal balance due to rejuvenation of ovaries
and uterus.
Neck
Push1: Stand
erect and relaxed keeping your feet together or
slightly apart as you prefer. Lock fingers of
both palms at the back of your neck. While pushing
your elbows back apply pressure on your neck in
order to push the neck forward. Simultaneously
apply pressure of your neck on the locked palms
in order to push them backward. With full pressure
applied both ways slowly count up to twelve. Release
pressure for a few seconds and apply pressure
again for twelve counts. Repeat ten to twelve
cycles. Neck Push 2: It is similar
as above except that the elbows are joined in
front of you instead of pushing them back. Repeat
ten to twelve cycles as explained above.
Shoulder
& Chin:
Stand as told above looking straight in front
of you in a relaxed state. Very slowly and deliberately
turn your neck towards your right shoulder. When
the neck can’t move further, slowly lift your
right shoulder to touch the chin. Stay in this
position for a slow count of twelve and then release.
Slowly turn your neck towards your left shoulder,
lift left shoulder to touch the chin for a count
of twelve and then release. Repeat ten to twelve
cycles.
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Marjariasan
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Shoulder-chin
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Neck
push
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Morning
Alarm: The
sound of alarm bell in the morning when you are
comfortably asleep is the harshest of all sounds
and it spoils the beautiful morning. It is great
pleasure waking up naturally. Here is a technique,
which will help you wake up on your own, at a
desired time without fail.
Before
proceeding to sleep, sit comfortably in the bed,
take the pillow in your lap and roll the tip of
your tongue onto your palate. Be aware of the
tingling sensation on your palate. Close your
eyes tilting them slightly upwards. Visualize
with exaggeration a huge clock. Visualize the
arms of the clock indicating the present time.
Tell yourself it is say eleven in the night and
you want to wake up naturally at four in the morning.
Tell yourself how important it is for you to wakeup
at that time. Slowly with deliberation mentally
rotate the arms of the clock to show the time
when you want to wake up. Tell yourself mentally
with as much deliberation as you can that from
eleven in the night to four in the morning five
hours will be lapsed. I want to wakeup after five
hours from now. I will be asleep for five hours
before I wakeup. This deliberation is essential
to calibrate the virtual clock with your biological
clock. At four in the morning when the hour arm
points four and the minute hand points twelve,
I will be awake.
Now talk
to your pillow addressing it by your own name.
Visualize your own picture as you looked when
you were ten years old. Tell yourself into the
pillow that you are the only one whom you trust
and depend upon. Tell the pillow firmly how important
it is for you wakeup at the desired time and you
depend upon it to do the needful. After this,
proceed to sleep using Sukha Nidra technique.
Suggestion: Faith works wonders
but you must be faithful enough to exhibit your
faith. When you try this technique for the first
time, make sure the alarm on your clock is switched
off. With this technique it is you who is going
to wake you up. If you don’t trust yourself nobody
can ever help you.
Sukha
Nidra (Quality sleep):
With this technique
you can go to sleep without any medicinal aid
bringing you total comfort, relaxation and rejuvenation.
Lie down comfortably on your back, resting your
arms loosely on the sides along the torso. Be
aware of your head, relieve all tension and relax
your head. Visualize two balloons, one white and
one blue, circumambulating your head. Visualize
the white balloon with beautiful white aura and
sparkles and the blue balloon with blue aura and
sparkles. Mentally pronounce AUM and visualize
the balloons touching your head one after the
other. Feel the vibrations of AUM in your entire
body. If you are not a Hindu and have reservations
of any kind in pronouncing AUM, simply say BLESS
ME GOD very softly. Continue with this exercise
with Forehead, Face, Neck and Throat, Shoulders
and Arms, Chest and Back, Stomach and lower back,
Waist and Thighs, Knees, legs and finally the
ankles, feet and soles. If you really tired and
free from unnecessary worries, you will be just
ready to sleep by the time your visualization
reaches your toes. If not, continue in the following
manner.
Imagine
that you are in the top floor lobby of a hundred
storied building. Tell yourself that you are feeling
sleepy and you want to go to the ground floor
and sleep comfortably. Press the elevator button
and watch the digital indicator showing that the
elevator cab is approaching fast. Visualize the
elevator door opening. Walk into the elevator,
turn and stand facing the open door. Through the
open elevator door observe a sign on the lobby
wall indicating that it is the 100th floor. Tell
yourself that you are sleepy and you want to go
to the ground floor and sleep. Press the down
button, see the elevator door closing and feel
the downward motion. Observe the indicator panel
and see number 99 appear on the panel. Tell yourself
that you are on the 99th floor and
you want to go to the ground floor and sleep.
Press the down button again telling yourself that
you want to go further down, feel the downward
motion and slowly observe the panel indicating
number 98. Repeat that you are on the 98th
floor and you want to go to the ground floor and
sleep. Continue in this manner and you will not
know when you fell asleep. The feedback I receive
from all age groups tells me that if you follow
the instructions seriously, you will hardly reach
90th floor before you fall asleep.
Warning: The idea is to fall asleep
and not to count and verify whether it is really
a hundred storied building. I repeat again that
the whole idea is to fall asleep and not to verify
if the technique given here really works. It does
work and you will know it does, only in the morning.
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